Gulu
MAVESI OKHUDZA NKHANI ZA KUGONANA
Nkhani ya kugonana nthawi zambiri imakhala yovuta kuyankhula, yokutidwa ndi manyazi ndi kukana. Koma monga Akhristu, tiyenera kudzifunsa kuti, “Kodi cholinga cha Mulungu ndi chotani pankhani ya kugonana?” Baibulo silikhala chete pankhaniyi, koma limatipatsa malangizo ofunikira.
Ahebri 13:4 amati, “Ukwati ukhale wolemekezeka kwa onse, ndi pogona pakhale posadetsedwa; pakuti adama ndi achigololo adzawaweruza Mulungu.” Ukwati ndi chinthu cholemekezeka, ndipo tonsefe tiyenera kuulemekeza.
Thawa chigololo. Danyani ndi kupewa zodetsa zonse. Mulungu amadana ndi kugonana kunja kwa ukwati. Ngakhale kuti maganizo a anthu pa nkhani ya kugonana amasiyana, tiyenera kudziwa kuti Mulungu ndiye amene analenga zonse zokongola, ndipo sitiyenera kuchita manyazi ndi chilichonse chimene iye analenga.
Popeza Mulungu ndiye analenga kugonana, njira yokhayo yololeka yokhutiritsira chilakolako cha kugonana ndi mkati mwa pangano la ukwati. Ukwati ndiwo chizindikiro cha pangano limeneli, ndipo ndi zimene Mulungu amafuna. Mulungu analenga kugonana kuti chizikhala mkati mwa ukwati, osati kunja kwake.
Aukwati okhulupirika sadzadwala matenda opatsirana pogonana chifukwa chogonana kwambiri. Koma ngati mmodzi wa iwo atathyola pangano la ukwati n’kupita kukagonana ndi wina, akhoza kudwala matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi mavuto ena chifukwa cha tchimo limenelo.
Undimpsompsone ndi milomo yako, chifukwa chikondi chako nchoposa vinyo kukoma kwake.
Choncho tsopano salinso aŵiri koma thupi limodzi. Tsono zimene Mulungu wazilumukiza pamodzi, munthu asazilekanitse.”
Uzikondwerera moyo pamodzi ndi mkazi amene umamkonda, pa masiku onse a moyo wako wopandapakewu umene Mulungu wakupatsa pansi pano. Ndi zokhazo zimene ungaziyembekeze pa moyo wako ndiponso pa ntchito zako zolemetsa zimene umazigwira pansi pano.
Wokondedwa wanga, nawenso ndiwe wokongola, wokongoladi zedi. Malo athu ogonapo ndi msipu wobiriŵira.
Iwe mlongo wanga, iwe mkazi wanga, wangoti mtima wangawu kwe! Wanditenga mtima ndi kapenyedwe ka maso ako, ndiponso ndi mphande imodzi ya mkanda wa m'khosi mwako.
Maŵere ako ali ngati mbaŵala ziŵiri, ngati mphoyo zamapasa zimene zikudya pakati pa akakombo.
Pamene kamphepo kamadzulo kakuyamba kuuzira, ndipo mithunzi ikuthaŵa, ndidzapita mofulumira ku phiri la mure, ndi ku chitunda cha lubani.
Ndiwe wokongola kwabasi, iwe wokondedwa wanga. Ulibe nkachilema komwe.
Wokondedwa wanga akulankhula nkumandiwuza kuti: Mwamuna “Dzuka bwenzi langa, wokongola wanga, tiye tizipita.
Ona, nyengo yachisanu yatha, mvula yatha ndipo yapitiratu.
Maluŵa ayamba kuwoneka m'dziko, nthaŵi yoimba yafika, njiŵa zikumveka kulira m'dziko mwathu.
Mikuyu ikubereka zipatso, mipesa ikuyamba maluŵa. Mitengoyo ikutulutsa fungo lokoma. Dzuka bwenzi langa, wokongola wanga, tiye tizipita.
Iwe nkhunda yanga, yokhala m'ming'alu yam'matanthwe, yobisala m'phiri lotsetsereka, ntaonako nkhope yako, ntamvako liwu lako. Paja liwu lako nlomveka bwino, ndipo nkhope yako ndi yokongola.
Wokondedwa wangayo ndi wangadi, ndipo ine ndine wake. Amadyetsa gulu lake la ziŵeto pakati pa akakombo.
Tenge, ndizikutsata, tiye tifulumire. Iwe mfumu yanga, kandiloŵetse m'chipinda mwako. Tizisangalala kwambiri ndi kukondwa limodzi. Chikondi chako tichitamande kupambana vinyo. Akazi onse amakukondera kaone!
Ukwati muziwulemekeza nonse, ndipo amuna ndi akazi ao azikhala okhulupirika, pakuti anthu adama ndi achigololo Mulungu adzaŵalanga.
Nchifukwa chake mwamuna amasiya atate ndi amai, ndipo amaphatikana ndi mkazi wake, choncho aŵiriwo amakhala thupi limodzi.
Nkotheka kuti munthu apambane mnzake amene ali yekha, koma pakakhala aŵiri, iwoŵa adzalimbana naye. Chingwe cha nkhosi zitatu sichidukirapo.
Umatirire mtima wako kuti musaloŵe winanso koma ine ndekha, ndipo sudzakumbatira winanso koma ine ndekha. Paja chikondi nchamphamvu ngati imfa, nsanje njaliwuma ngati manda. Chikondi chimachita kuti laŵilaŵi ngati malaŵi a moto, ndipo nchotentha koopsa.
Inu amuna, muzikonda akazi anu, monga momwe Khristu adakondera Mpingo, nadzipereka chifukwa cha Mpingowo.
Umatirire mtima wako kuti musaloŵe winanso koma ine ndekha, ndipo sudzakumbatira winanso koma ine ndekha. Paja chikondi nchamphamvu ngati imfa, nsanje njaliwuma ngati manda. Chikondi chimachita kuti laŵilaŵi ngati malaŵi a moto, ndipo nchotentha koopsa.
Ngakhale madzi ochuluka sangachizimitse chikondi, ngakhale madzi a chigumula sangachikokolole. Ngakhale munthu atapereka chuma chonse cha m'nyumba chifukwa chofuna kugula chikondi, adzangonyozeka nazo kotheratu. Alongo a Mkazi
Chachikulu nchakuti muzikondana mosafookera, popeza kuti chikondi chimaphimba machimo ochuluka.
Inu amuna, muzikonda akazi anu, monga momwe Khristu adakondera Mpingo, nadzipereka chifukwa cha Mpingowo.
Adachita zimenezi kuti aupatule ukhale wakewake, atauyeretsa pakuutsuka ndi madzi ndiponso ndi mau ake.
Adafuna kuti akauimike pamaso pake uli waulemerero, wopanda banga kapena makwinya, kapena kanthu kena kalikonse kouipitsa, koma uli woyera ndi wangwiro kotheratu.
Momwemonso amuna azikonda akazi ao, monga momwe eniakewo amakondera matupi ao. Amene amakonda mkazi wake, ndiye kuti amadzikonda iye yemwe.
Palibiretu munthu amene amadana ndi thupi lake, koma amalidyetsa ndi kulisamala bwino, monga momwe Khristu amachitira Mpingo wake.
Popeza kuti ndinu anthu a Mulungu, ndiye kuti dama kapena zonyansa, kapena masiriro oipa zisatchulidwe nkomwe pakati panu.
Amatero chifukwa Mpingowo ndi thupi lake, ndipo ife ndife ziwalo zake.
Paja mau a Mulungu akuti, “Nchifukwa chake mwamuna adzasiye atate ndi amai ake, nkukaphatikizana ndi mkazi wake, kuti aŵiriwo asanduke thupi limodzi.”
Mau ameneŵa akutiwululira chinsinsi chozama, ndipo ndikuti chinsinsicho nchokhudza Khristu ndi Mpingo.
Komabe akunenanso za inu, kuti mwamuna aliyense azikonda mkazi wake monga momwe amadzikondera iye mwini, ndiponso kuti mkazi aliyense azilemekeza mwamuna wake.
Muja umakhalira mtengo wa apulosi pakati pa mitengo yam'nkhalango, ndi m'mene aliri wokondedwa wanga pakati pa anyamata. Ndinkakondwa kwambiri ndikausa mumthunzi mwake, zipatso zake zinali tseketseketseke m'kamwamu.
Adanditenga kupita nane ku nyumba yaphwando, mbendera yake yozika pa ine inali chikondi.
Mundidyetse mphesa zouma, munditsitsimutse ndi maapulosi, pakuti ndikumva chikondi chodwala nacho.
Inunso amuna, muzikhala moŵamvetsa bwino akazi anu. Muziŵachitira ulemu popeza kuti iwowo ndi mtundu wofookerapo, ndiponso ngolandira nanu pamodzi mphatso ya Mulungu, imene ili moyo wosatha. Muzitero, kuti pasakhale kanthu koletsa mapemphero anu.
Chimodzimodzinso inu azimai, muzimvera amuna anu, kuti ngati ena mwa iwo samvera mau a Mulungu, azikopeka ndi makhalidwe a akazi aonu. Sipadzafunikanso kunenerera mau,
Paja mau a Mulungu akuti. “Yemwe afuna kukondwera ndi moyo, ndi kuwona masiku abwino, aletse lilime lake kulankhula zoipa, ndiponso milomo yake kunena mabodza.
Alewe zoipa, azichita zabwino. Afunefune mtendere ndi kuyesetsa kuupeza.
Paja Ambuye amaŵayang'anira bwino anthu olungama amatchera khutu ku mapemphero ao. Koma ochita zoipa saŵayang'ana bwino.”
Ndani angakuchiteni choipa ngati muchita changu pa zabwino?
Koma ngakhale mumve zoŵaŵa chifukwa cha chilungamo, mudzakhala odala ndithu. Musachite mantha ndi anthu, kapena kuvutika mu mtima,
koma muzilemekeza Khristu m'mitima mwanu ngati Mbuye wanu. Khalani okonzeka nthaŵi iliyonse kuŵayankha mofatsa ndi mwaulemu anthu okufunsani za zimene mumayembekeza.
Khalani ndi mtima wopanda kanthu koutsutsa, kotero kuti anthu ena akamasinjirira mayendedwe anu abwino pamene mukutsata Khristu, achite manyazi ndi chipongwe chao.
Nkwabwino kumva zoŵaŵa chifukwa chochita zabwino, ngati Mulungu wafuna choncho, koposa kumva zoŵaŵa chifukwa chochita zoipa.
Paja nayenso Khristu adafera machimo a anthu kamodzi kokha; munthu wolungama kufa m'malo mwa anthu ochimwafe, kuti atifikitse kwa Mulungu. Pa za thupi adaphedwa, koma pa za mzimu adapatsidwa moyo.
Ndipo ali ngati mzimu choncho, adapita kukalalika kwa mizimu imene inali m'ndende.
popeza kuti adzadziwonera okha makhalidwe anu aulemu ndi angwiro.
Mizimuyi ndi ya anthu amene kale lija sadamvere pamene Mulungu adaadikira moleza mtima, pa nthaŵi imene Nowa ankapanga chombo. M'chombomo anthu oŵerengeka okha, asanu ndi atatu, adapulumuka ndi madzi.
Madziwo akufanizira ubatizo umene masiku ano umakupulumutsani chifukwa cha kuuka kwa Yesu Khristu. Kubatizidwa kumeneku si kuchotsedwa litsiro la m'thupi, koma kudzipereka kwa Mulungu ndi mtima woona, kudzera mwa Yesu Khristu
amene adapita Kumwamba, ndipo ali ku dzanja lamanja la Mulungu. Kumeneko angelo ndi maulamuliro ndi zimphamvu zimamvera Iye.
Kudzikongoletsa kwanu kusangokhala kwa maonekedwe akunja pakuluka tsitsi, ndi kuvala zamakaka zagolide ndi zovala zamtengowapatali.
Koma kudzikongoletsa kwanu kukhale kwa moyo wam'kati, kukongola kosatha kwa mtima wofatsa ndi wachete. Moyo wotere ngwamtengowapatali pamaso pa Mulungu.
Umu ndi m'mene kale lija azimai oyera mtima okhulupirira Mulungu ankadzikongoletsera, ndipo ankamvera amuna ao.
Sara yemwe ankamvera Abrahamu, ndi kumutcha “Mbuyanga.” Motero inu azimai, ndinu ana ake a Sarayo, ngati muchita bwino, osalola kuwopsedwa ndi kanthu kalikonse.
Inunso amuna, muzikhala moŵamvetsa bwino akazi anu. Muziŵachitira ulemu popeza kuti iwowo ndi mtundu wofookerapo, ndiponso ngolandira nanu pamodzi mphatso ya Mulungu, imene ili moyo wosatha. Muzitero, kuti pasakhale kanthu koletsa mapemphero anu.
Inu amuna, muzikonda akazi anu, monga momwe Khristu adakondera Mpingo, nadzipereka chifukwa cha Mpingowo.
Adachita zimenezi kuti aupatule ukhale wakewake, atauyeretsa pakuutsuka ndi madzi ndiponso ndi mau ake.
Chikondi nchosatha. Uneneri udzatha, kulankhula zilankhulo zosadziŵika kudzalekeka, ndipo nzeru za anthu zidzatha.
Pambuyo pake Chauta adati, “Sibwino kuti munthuyu akhale yekha. Ndipanga mnzake woti azimthandiza.”
Paja mwamuna ndi mutu wa mkazi wake, monga momwe Khristu ali mutu wa Mpingo, umene uli thupi lake, ndipo Iye mwini ndi Mpulumutsi wa Mpingowo.
Pali zinthu zitatu zimene zimandidabwitsa kwambiri. Pali zinthu zinai zimene sindizimvetsa konse, zinthuzo ndi izi:
M'mene umaulukira mphamba mu mlengalenga, m'mene imayendera njoka pa thanthwe, m'mene chimayendera chombo pa nyanja yakuya, ndiponso m'mene mwamuna amachitira akakhala ndi namwali.
Yesu adaŵayankha kuti, “Kodi simunaŵerenge kuti Mulungu amene adalenga anthu pa chiyambi, adalenga wina wamwamuna, wina wamkazi?
Ndipo kuti Iye yemweyo adati, ‘Nchifukwa chake mwamuna azisiya atate ake ndi amai ake, nakaphatikizana ndi mkazi wake, ndipo aŵiriwo adzasanduka thupi limodzi.’
Choncho tsopano salinso aŵiri koma thupi limodzi. Tsono zimene Mulungu wazilumukiza pamodzi, munthu asazilekanitse.”
Khalidwe la kudzipereka ndi kukhulupirika zisakuthaŵe, makhalidwe ameneŵa uziyenda nawo ngati mkanda wam'khosi, uŵalembe mumtima mwako.
Usamakangane ndi munthu popanda chifukwa pamene iyeyo sadakuchite choipa chilichonse.
Usachite naye nsanje munthu wachiwawa, usatsanzireko khalidwe lake lililonse.
Paja Chauta amanyansidwa ndi munthu woipa, koma olungama okha amayanjana nawo.
Chauta amatemberera nyumba ya anthu oipa, koma malo okhalamo anthu abwino amaŵadalitsa.
Anthu onyoza, Iye amaŵanyoza, koma odzichepetsa Iye amaŵakomera mtima.
Anthu anzeru adzalandira ulemu, koma zitsiru adzazichititsa manyazi.
Choncho udzapeza kuyanja ndi mbiri yabwino pamaso pa Mulungu ndi pa anthunso.
Inu akazi, muzimvera amuna anu, monga ayenera kuchitira okhala mwa Ambuye.
Inu amuna, muzikonda akazi anu, musamaŵavutitse ai.
Chikondi ncholeza mtima ndiponso nchofatsa. Chikondi chilibe kaduka, ndipo sichidzitamanda kapena kudzikuza.
Chikondi chilibe matama kapena chipongwe, sichidzikonda, sichikwiya, sichisunga mangaŵa.
Sichikondwerera zosalungama, koma chimakondwerera choona.
Chikondi chimakhululukira zonse, chimakhulupirira nthaŵi zonse, sichitaya mtima, ndipo chimapirira onse.
Nyumba imamangidwa ndi anthu anzeru, ndipo imakhazikika ndi anthu a mtima wodziŵa zinthu.
Motero Mulungu adalenga munthu, m'chifanizo chake, adaŵalengadi m'chifanizo cha Mulungu. Adaŵalenga wina wamwamuna wina wamkazi.
Adaŵadalitsa poŵauza kuti, “Mubereke ndi kuchulukana, mudzaze dziko lonse lapansi ndi kumalilamulira. Ndakupatsani ulamuliro pa nsomba, mbalame ndi nyama zonse zimene zikukhala pa dziko lapansi.”
Inu akazi, muzimvera amuna anu, monga mumamvera Ambuye.
Paja mwamuna ndi mutu wa mkazi wake, monga momwe Khristu ali mutu wa Mpingo, umene uli thupi lake, ndipo Iye mwini ndi Mpulumutsi wa Mpingowo.
Tsono monga Mpingo umamvera Khristu, momwemonso akazi azimvera amuna ao pa zonse.
Muzikhala odzichepetsa, ofatsa ndi opirira nthaŵi zonse. Muzilezerana mtima mwachikondi,
Koma umu si m'mene inu mudaphunzirira za Khristu ai,
ngatitu mudamva za Iyeyo, ngatinso mudaphunzitsidwa za Iye, motsata choona chimene chili mwa Yesu.
Mudaphunzira kuti muleke mayendedwe anu akale, muvule moyo wanu wakale uja umene unkadziwononga ndi zilakolako zake zonyenga.
Mtima wanu, umene uli gwero la maganizo anu, usanduke watsopano.
Ndipo muvale moyo watsopano, umene Mulungu adaulenga, wofanafana naye. Apo mudzakhala olungama ndi oyera mtima kwenikweni.
Tsono lekani kunama. Aliyense azilankhula zoona zokhazokha ndi mkhristu mnzake, pakuti tonse pamodzi mogwirizana ndife ziwalo za thupi la Khristu.
Inde mwina nkupsa mtima, koma musachimwe, ndipo musalole kuti dzuŵa likuloŵereni muli chikwiyire.
Musampatse mpata Satana woti akugwetseni.
Amene ankaba, asabenso, koma makamaka azigwira ntchito kolimba ndi kumachita zolungama ndi manja ake, kuti akhale nkanthu kopatsa osoŵa.
M'kamwa mwanu musatuluke mau aliwonse oipa, koma muzinena mau okhaokha abwino ndi olimbitsa mtima monga kungafunikire, kuti mupindulitse anzanu omva mau anuwo.
ndipo muziyesetsa kusunga umodzi mwa Mzimu Woyera pa kulunzana mu mtendere.
koma kuwopa dama, mwamuna aliyense akhale ndi mkazi wakewake, ndipo mkazi aliyense akhale ndi mwamuna wakewake.
Aliyense angokhala monga momwe analiri pamene Mulungu adamuitana.
Kodi unali kapolo pamene Mulungu adakuitana? Usavutike nazo. Komanso ngati upeza mwai woti ulandire ufulu, uugwiritse ntchito mwaiwo.
Pakuti munthu amene anali kapolo pamene Ambuye adamuitana, ameneyo ndi mfulu ya Ambuye. Momwemonso amene anali mfulu pamene Ambuye adamuitana, ameneyo ndi kapolo wa Khristu.
Mulungu adakugulani ndi mtengo wapatali, tsono musasanduke akapolo a anthu.
Abale, aliyense angokhala pamaso pa Mulungu monga momwe analiri pamene Mulunguyo adamuitana.
Kunena za amene sali pa banja, ndilibe lamulo lochokera kwa Ambuye. Koma ndikuuzani maganizo anga, ngati munthu amene Ambuye adandichitira chifundo kuti ndikhale wokhulupirika.
Chifukwa cha masautso a nthaŵi ino, ndiyesa nkwabwino kuti munthu akhale monga momwe aliri.
Kodi ndiwe wapabanja? Usayese kuthetsa banja lako. Kodi ndiwe wopanda banja? Usayese kupeza banja.
Komabe ngati ukwatira, sukuchimwa ai. Ndipo ngati namwali akwatiwa, sakuchimwa ai. Komabe oloŵa m'banja adzakumana ndi zovuta m'moyo wao, ndipo pano ndingofuna kukupewetsani zovutazo.
Chimene ndikukuuzani, abale, nchakuti nthaŵi yachepa. Kuyambira tsopano anthu okwatira akhale monga ngati sadakwatire.
Mwamuna azipereka kwa mkazi wake zomuyenerera zokhudza banja ngati mkazi wake, momwemonso mkazi azipereka kwa mwamuna wake zomuyenerera zokhudza banja ngati mwamuna wake.
Amene akulira, akhale monga ngati sakulira, amene akukondwa, akhale monga ngati sakukondwa, amene akugula zinthu, akhale monga ngati sali nazo zinthuzo.
Ndipo amene akugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zapansipano, zisaŵagwire mtima zinthuzo. Pakuti dziko lino lapansi, monga liliri tsopanomu, likupita.
Ndidakakonda kuti pasakhale zokudetsani nkhaŵa. Munthu wosakwatira amangotekeseka ndi za Ambuye, kuganiza za m'mene angakondweretsere Ambuye.
Koma munthu wokwatira amatekeseka ndi zapansipano, kuganiza za m'mene angakondweretsere mkazi wake.
Motero amagwira njakata. Mkazi wosakwatiwa, kapenanso namwali, amangotekeseka ndi za Ambuye, kuti adzipereke kwa Ambuye m'thupi ndi mumzimu momwe. Koma mkazi wokwatiwa amatekeseka ndi zapansipano, kuganiza za m'mene angakondweretsere mwamuna wake.
Ndikunenatu zimenezi kufuna kuti ndikuthandizeni, osati kuti ndikuletseni ufulu wanu ai. Makamaka ndifuna kuti muzichita zonse moyenera, ndipo kuti muzidzipereka kwathunthu potumikira Ambuye.
Koma ngati wina akuganiza kuti akumlakwira namwali wake amene adamtomera, ndipo ngati namwaliyo unamwali wake ukupitirira, tsono munthuyo nkuganiza kuti ayenera kumkwatira, angathe kuchita zimenezo, si kuchimwa ai.
Komabe ngati wina, mwaufulu wake, popanda womukakamiza, watsimikiza kwenikweni kuti samkwatira namwali adamtomerayo, nayenso wachita bwino.
Ndiye kuti, munthu wokwatira namwali amene adamtomera, akuchita bwino, koma woleka osamkwatira, akuchita bwino koposa.
Mkazi amamangika ndi lamulo la ukwati, nthaŵi yonse pamene mwamuna wake ali moyo. Koma mwamuna wake akamwalira, ali ndi ufulu kukwatiwa ndi mwamuna amene iye afuna, malinga ukwatiwo ukhale wachikhristu.
Mkazi thupi lake si lokhalira iye yekha ai, ndi lokhaliranso ndi mwamuna wake yemwe. Momwemonso mwamuna thupi lake si lokhalira iye yekha ai, ndi lokhaliranso ndi mkazi wake yemwe.
Koma m'mene ndikuganizira ine, adzakhala wokondwa koposa ngati akhala wosakwatiwanso. Ndipo ndikuyesa inenso ndili naye Mzimu wa Mulungu.
Musamakanane, koma pokhapokha mutavomerezana kutero pa kanthaŵi kuti mudzipereke ku mapemphero. Pambuyo pake mukhalenso pamodzi, kuwopa kuti Satana angakuyeseni chifukwa cha kulephera kudzigwira.
koma kuwopa dama, mwamuna aliyense akhale ndi mkazi wakewake, ndipo mkazi aliyense akhale ndi mwamuna wakewake.
Aliyense angokhala monga momwe analiri pamene Mulungu adamuitana.
Kodi unali kapolo pamene Mulungu adakuitana? Usavutike nazo. Komanso ngati upeza mwai woti ulandire ufulu, uugwiritse ntchito mwaiwo.
Pakuti munthu amene anali kapolo pamene Ambuye adamuitana, ameneyo ndi mfulu ya Ambuye. Momwemonso amene anali mfulu pamene Ambuye adamuitana, ameneyo ndi kapolo wa Khristu.
Mulungu adakugulani ndi mtengo wapatali, tsono musasanduke akapolo a anthu.
Abale, aliyense angokhala pamaso pa Mulungu monga momwe analiri pamene Mulunguyo adamuitana.
Kunena za amene sali pa banja, ndilibe lamulo lochokera kwa Ambuye. Koma ndikuuzani maganizo anga, ngati munthu amene Ambuye adandichitira chifundo kuti ndikhale wokhulupirika.
Chifukwa cha masautso a nthaŵi ino, ndiyesa nkwabwino kuti munthu akhale monga momwe aliri.
Kodi ndiwe wapabanja? Usayese kuthetsa banja lako. Kodi ndiwe wopanda banja? Usayese kupeza banja.
Komabe ngati ukwatira, sukuchimwa ai. Ndipo ngati namwali akwatiwa, sakuchimwa ai. Komabe oloŵa m'banja adzakumana ndi zovuta m'moyo wao, ndipo pano ndingofuna kukupewetsani zovutazo.
Chimene ndikukuuzani, abale, nchakuti nthaŵi yachepa. Kuyambira tsopano anthu okwatira akhale monga ngati sadakwatire.
Mwamuna azipereka kwa mkazi wake zomuyenerera zokhudza banja ngati mkazi wake, momwemonso mkazi azipereka kwa mwamuna wake zomuyenerera zokhudza banja ngati mwamuna wake.
Kodi mkazi wolemerera angathe kumpeza ndani? Ndi wokwera mtengo kuposa miyala ya yamtengowapatali.
Mtima wa mwamuna wake umamkhulupirira, ndipo mwamunayo sadzasoŵa phindu.
Masiku onse a moyo wake, mkaziyo amachitira mwamuna wake zabwino osati zoipa.
“Anthu akale aja adaaŵalamulanso kuti, ‘Ngati munthu asudzula mkazi wake, ampatse mkaziyo kalata yachisudzulo.’
Chabwino, koma Ine ndikukuuzani kuti aliyense amene asudzula mkazi wake, osati chifukwa cha chigololo, akumchititsa chigololo mkaziyo ngati akwatiwanso. Ndipo amene akwatira mkazi wosudzulidwayo, nayenso akuchita chigololo.
Chauta akapanda kumanga nawo nyumba, omanga nyumbayo angogwira ntchito pachabe. Chauta akapanda kulonda nawo mzinda, mlonda angochezera pachabe.
Tsono Isaki adatenga Rebeka kuti akhale mkazi wake naloŵa naye m'hema mwake. Isaki adamkonda kwambiri Rebekayo, mwakuti zimenezi zidamtonthoza pa imfa ya mai wake ija.
Kwa anthu am'banja lamulo langa, limenetu kwenikweni ndi lochokera kwa Ambuye, ndi ili: Mkazi asalekane ndi mwamuna wake.
Koma ngati amuleka, akhale wosakwatiwanso, kapena ayanjane nayenso mwamuna wakeyo. Chimodzimodzinso mwamuna asasudzule mkazi wake.
Nyumba ndi chuma ndiye choloŵa chochokera kwa makolo, koma mkazi wanzeru ndi wochokera kwa Chauta.
Nchifukwa chake ndikukupemphani kuti mundikondweretse kwenikweni pakuvomerezana maganizo ndi kukondana chimodzimodzi, kukhala a mtima umodzi ndi a cholinga chimodzi.
Nchifukwa chake ndikukupemphani kuti mundikondweretse kwenikweni pakuvomerezana maganizo ndi kukondana chimodzimodzi, kukhala a mtima umodzi ndi a cholinga chimodzi.
Ndilibenso wina wonga amene ali ndi mtima wosamala za inu kwenikweni.
Paja ena onse amangofuna zokomera iwo okha, osati zokomera Yesu Khristu.
Koma mukudziŵa kuti mkhalidwe wa Timoteo ndi wotsimikizika kale kuti ngwabwino. Mukudziŵanso kuti adagwira mogwirizana nane ntchito yofalitsa Uthenga Wabwino, monga mwana ndi bambo wake.
Ndikuyembekeza tsono kumtumiza kwa inu msanga, nditadziŵa za m'mene ziyendere zanga.
Koma ndikhulupirira kuti, Ambuye akalola, inenso ndidzafika kwanuko msanga.
Ndaganiza kuti nkofunikadi kuti ndikutumizireni mbale wathu uja, Epafrodito. Mudaamtuma kuti adzandithandize pa zosoŵa zanga, ndipo wagwiradi ntchito ndi kumenya nkhondo yachikhristu pamodzi ndi ine.
Tsonotu akukulakalakani nonsenu, ndipo ndi wokhumudwa podziŵa kuti inu mudamva zoti iye ankadwala.
Nzoonadi adaadwala zedi mpaka pafupi kufa. Mwai kuti Mulungu adamchitira chifundo. Ndipotu sadangochitira chifundo iye yekhayu, komanso ineyo, kuti chisoni changa chisakhale chosanjikizana.
Nchifukwa chake ndikufunitsitsa ndithu kumtumiza kwa inu, kuti podzamuwonanso mudzasangalale, kutinso nkhaŵa yanga ichepeko.
Mlandireni mwachikhristu ndi chimwemwe chachikulu. Anthu otere muziŵachitira ulemu.
Musamachita kanthu ndi mtima wodzikonda, kapena wodzitukumula chabe. Koma khalani odzichepetsa, ndipo aliyense aziwona anzake kuti ngomuposa iyeyo.
Chifukwa cha kugwira ntchito ya Khristu, iyeyu adaali pafupifupi kufa. Adaadzipereka osaopa ngakhale kutaya moyo wake kuti azindithandiza pa zimene inu simudathe kukwaniritsa pondithandiza.
Musamangofuna zokomera inu nokha, koma zokomeranso anzanu.
Koma zipatso zimene Mzimu Woyera amabweretsa m'moyo wa munthu ndi izi: Chikondi, chimwemwe, mtendere, kuleza mtima, chifundo, kukoma mtima, kukhulupirika,
kufatsa ndiponso kudziletsa. Zimenezi palibe lamulo loziletsa.
Woyang'anira Mpingo azikhala munthu wopanda chokayikitsa, akhale wa mkazi mmodzi yekha, akhale wodzigwira, wa maganizo anzeru, waulemu, wosamala bwino alendo, ndi wotha kuphunzitsa.
Kuwonjezera pa zonsezi muzikhala ndi chikondi, pakuti nchimene chimamanga zonse m'chigwirizano chathunthu.
Nchifukwa chake muzilimbitsana mtima ndi kumathandizana, monga momwe mukuchitiramu.
Ngwodala aliyense woopa Chauta, amene amayenda m'njira zake.
Udzadya zimene manja ako adagwirira ntchito. Udzasangalala, ndipo zinthu zidzakuyendera bwino.
Mkazi wako adzakhala ngati mpesa wobereka, m'kati mwa nyuma yako. Ana ako adzakhala ngati tiziphukira taolivi, kuzungulira tebulo lako.
Zoonadi, ndimo m'mene adzakhalire wodala munthu woopa Chauta.
Kuli bwino kudyera masamba pali chikondi, kupambana kudyera nyama ya ng'ombe yonenepa pali chidani.
Musakhale ndi ngongole ina iliyonse kwa munthu wina aliyense, koma kukondana kokha. Wokonda mnzake, watsata zonse zimene Malamulo a Mulungu akunena.
Mulungu amene amapatsa anthu mphamvu zoti athe kupirira naŵalimbitsa mtima, akuthandizeni kumvana bwino, motsata chitsanzo cha Khristu Yesu,
akuthandizeni kuti ndi mtima umodzi, nonse pamodzi mulemekeze Mulungu ndi Atate a Ambuye athu Yesu Khristu.
Inu ana, popeza kuti ndinu ake a Khristu, muzimvera anakubala anu, pakuti zimenezi ndiye zoyenera.
Potsiriza ndikuti, dzilimbitseni mwa Ambuye, mwa mphamvu yao yaikulu.
Valani zida zonse zimene Mulungu akupatsani, kuti muthe kulimbika polimbana ndi ndale za Satana.
Paja sitikulimbana ndi anthu chabetu ai. Tikulimbana ndi maufumu, aulamuliro ndi mphamvu za dziko lino lapansi lamdima, ndiponso ndi mizimu yoipa yamumlengalenga.
Nchifukwa chake valani zida zonse za Mulungu. Pamenepo mudzatha kulimbika, osagonja pa tsiku loipa, ndipo mutatsiriza kulimbanaku, mudzaimabe kuti nji.
Imirirani tsono mutavala choona ngati lamba m'chiwuno mwanu. Valani chilungamo ngati chovala chachitsulo chotchinjirizira pachifuwa panu.
Ndipo changu chanu polalika Uthenga Wabwino wa mtendere chikhale ngati nsapato zanu.
Nthaŵi zonse mukhale ndi chikhulupiriro ngati chishango chanu chokutetezani, chimene mudzatha kuzimitsira mivi yonse yoyakamoto ya Satana.
Landirani chipulumutso ngati chisoti chanu, ndi mau a Mulungu ngati lupanga limene Mzimu Woyera akupatsani.
Chitani zonse mopemphera, ndi kupempha chithandizo cha Mulungu nthaŵi zonse. Nthaŵi iliyonse muzipemphera motsogoleredwa ndi Mzimu Woyera. Nchifukwa chake muchezere kupemphera mosalekeza, kupempherera anthu onse a Mulungu.
Inenso muzindipempherera, kuti Mulungu aike mau m'kamwa mwanga pamene ndizilankhula, kuti ndidziŵitse anthu chinsinsi cha Uthenga Wabwino molimba mtima.
Mau a Mulungu akuti, “Lemekeza atate ako ndi amai ako.” Limeneli ndiye lamulo loyamba kukhala ndi lonjezo.
Ngakhale ndili womangidwa m'ndende, ndine nthumwi ndithu chifukwa cha Uthenga Wabwinowu. Mundipempherere tsono kuti ndizilankhula molimba mtima za Uthenga Wabwinowu, monga ndiyenera kulankhulira.
Tikiko adzakudziŵitsani zonse za ine ndi zimene ndikuchita. Iyeyu ndi mbale wathu wokondedwa, ndiponso mtumiki wokhulupirika pa ntchito ya Ambuye.
Ndikumtuma kwa inu kuti mudziŵe za m'mene tiliri, ndipo kuti akulimbitseni mtima.
Mulungu Atate ndi Ambuye Yesu Khristu apatse abale onse mtendere, chikondi ndi chikhulupiriro.
Onse okonda Ambuye athu Yesu Khristu ndi chikondi chosafa, Mulungu aŵadalitse.
Lonjezolo likuti, “Ukatero, udzakhala wodala, ndipo moyo wako udzakhala wautali pansi pano.”