Can you give me some Christian relationship advice?

Answer

We frequently receive inquiries such as: “I am interested in two different gentlemen… which one should I choose to be my boyfriend?” Or, “I am in a relationship and my girlfriend did/said ‘_____’; therefore, should I break up with her?” These types of inquiries are challenging for us to address. GotQuestions.org does not function as a Christian relationship advice ministry. We always aim to convey what the Bible states about a particular situation. Nevertheless, concerning relationship advice matters, the Bible seldom directly tackles the scenarios we are asked about. The Bible is primarily concerned with our relationship with God.

We are very hesitant to offer relationship advice. Providing sound guidance on a personal matter through an article is complex. Dispensing Christian relationship advice becomes exceedingly challenging when we lack personal acquaintance with the individuals involved, do not have all the details, and/or are privy to only one side of the narrative. We do not assume the role of speaking for God by offering authoritative relationship advice to Christians.

Having said that, what is our counsel? Our suggestion is that you converse with God regarding your relationship. Pray to the Lord, beseeching Him to clearly disclose to you what He would have you do (Philippians 4:6-7). Request God to grant you wisdom and discernment «If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. », (James 1:5). God pledges to fulfill prayer petitions that align with His will (1 John 5:14-15). Being wise and discerning are undeniably God’s will. God desires you to make sound relationship choices. God wishes for Christians toBe joyful and enlightened through their relationships. When you ask God with an open heart and humble spirit, He will provide you with the relationship guidance you require. Finally, seek wise counsel from seasoned Christians who have been married for an extended period and have faithfully followed God throughout that time. Turn to your pastor, elders, or other respected church leaders for advice. Their wealth of experience allows them to offer insights based on wisdom and their understanding of God in their lives.