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An “us vs. them” mentality divides the people in our world into good guys and bad guys, friends versus foes. It separates us based on our differing beliefs, ethnicity, social status, nationality, political ideology, team affiliations, and so forth. The “us” group comprises individuals who align with our beliefs, share our perspective, and uphold our same biases and inclinations. In the “them” category are individuals who hold opposing views or follow a different ideology. There are numerous risks associated with adopting an “us vs. them” mindset as a Christian, the foremost being that it contradicts the essence of God our Father.
Jesus taught that God’s genuine children love others as their heavenly Father does: “You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In doing so, you will be demonstrating that you are true children of your Father in heaven. For he provides sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you only love those who love you, what reward will you get? Even corrupt tax collectors do the same. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that. But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect” (Matthew 5:43-48;NLT).
It is natural for individuals to gravitate towards like-minded companions who share similar interests, uphold their beliefs, and perceive the world in a comparable manner. There is nothing wrong with seeking harmonious fellowship with others. However, when we go a step further, issues emerge. Driven by fear, pride, conceit, prejudice, and at times ignorance, we marginalize those who do not echo our sentiments and foster unnecessary polarization. In our quest to feel superior, we diminish and demonize “them” as inferior.We boast about our “rightness” or “righteousness” but fail to see the hypocrisy in ourselves. Such was the legalistic attitude of the Pharisees (see Matthew 7:1-5; Romans 2:1, 17-24), and as a result, they “shut the door of the Kingdom of Heaven in people’s faces” (Matthew 23:13, NLT).
Genuine children of God love their enemies and pray for those who persecute them. They view all people as image-bearers of God (Genesis 1:26-27; 9:6). They love because the heavenly Father loves all people of the world—every lost, last one of them—so much so that He sent His only Son to die for them (John 3:16-17; 1 John 4:8-11, 16-19; Romans 5:8). He “wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth” (1 Timothy 2:3-4; NLT; see also 2 Peter 3:9). He is patient, kind, and forbearing with unbelievers because these qualities lead people to repentance (Romans 2:4).
In the body of Christ, we are all unique brothers and sisters in God’s united family. Despite our various denominations and divergent doctrinal views, we are commanded to love one another.ible? s=John+13%3A34-35%3B1+John+4%3A7-8″>(John 13:34-35; 1 John 4:7-8). If we believe a fellow Christian is deceived about the truth or is walking in sin, we are still called to love that brother. Loving him does not mean tolerating or accepting the brother’s sin, of course, but neither does it mean marginalizing or shaming him. Jesus loved sinners and even ate with them (Mark 2:15-17), but He always fed them the truth that would set them free (John 6:25-59; 8:32). He spoke that truth from a place of compassion and love, and so must we (John 1:17; Matthew 9:36; cf: Ephesians 4:15).
Today, many news outlets and social media platforms thrive on controversy, promoting an “us vs. them” mentality. As God’s people, we must tune out all Christian and secular voices that use inflammatory rhetoric, preach superiority, or rationalize prejudice. Instead, we must listen to God’s Word that says, “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you” (Luke 6:27-28). We must search our hearts to discover if we have an “us vs. them” mindset in any area. Do we want “us” to be proven right, or do we want “them” to repent and be saved? Because this is what’s at stake.
God opposes attitudes of pride and superiority (Proverbs 16:5; Proverbs 8:13; James 4:6). He calls us to bless our opponents with kindness (1 Peter 3:9; Proverbs 25:21-22) and pray for their salvation as we “live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness” (1 Timothy 2:1-2). We should be compassionate, humble, and forgiving, following the example of Jesus. It is important to demonstrate His mercy, grace, and love even to those with whom we have disagreements.
The apostle Paul taught that Jesus “himself is our peace” because He removed the barrier and the dividing wall of hostility between different groups of people (Ephesians 2:11-18). Instead of embracing an “us vs. them” mindset, Christians are called to be instruments of peace on earth: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven” (Matthew 5:9-12).
