I would prefer that young widows get married, have children, and look after their families. Then the enemy won't have any reason to say insulting things about us.
Tell the older women to behave as those who love the Lord should. They must not gossip about others or be slaves of wine. They must teach what is proper,
Each of the younger women must be sensible and kind, as well as a good homemaker, who puts her own husband first. Then no one can say insulting things about God's message.