And an argument arose among them as to which of them was the greatest.
love one another with brotherly affection; outdo one another in showing honor.
For by the grace given to me I bid every one among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith which God has assigned him.
Do all things without grumbling or questioning,
Do nothing from selfishness or conceit, but in humility count others better than yourselves.
I have written something to the church; but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge my authority.