Suppose someone has money they could use to help their parents. You tell them they can say it’s ‘a gift set apart only for God.’
Peter and the other apostles answered, “We must obey God rather than people!
But Peter and John replied, “Which is right from God’s point of view? For us listen to you, or to God? You be the judges!
God said, ‘Honor your father and mother.’ God also said, ‘Anyone who asks for bad things to happen to their father or mother must be put to death.’
Then they don’t need to use that money to honor their father or mother. If the word of God clashes with your own teachings, you say it doesn’t apply.