An argument arose among them concerning which one of them was the greatest.
love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor.
For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of yourself more highly than you ought to think but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.
Do all things without murmuring and arguing,
Do nothing from selfish ambition or empty conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves.
I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not welcome us.