Then a dispute arose among them as to which of them would be greatest.
I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to have the preeminence among them, does not receive us.
Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.
Do all things without complaining and disputing,
Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;
For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith.