Then there arose a discussion among them, which of them should be greatest.
Be kindly affectioned to one another with brotherly love; in honor preferring one another;
For I say, through the grace given unto me, to everyone that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God has dealt to every man the measure of faith.
Do all things without murmuring and disputing:
Let nothing be done through strife or self glorification; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves.
I wrote to the church: but Diotrephes, who loves to have the preeminence among them, does not receive us.