honour your father and mother (it is the first command with a promise),
Pay them all their respective dues, tribute to one, taxes to another, respect to this man, honour to that.
that it may be well with you and that you may live long on earth.
(When a widow has children or grandchildren, they must learn that the first duty of religion is to their own household, and that they should make some return to those who have brought them up. In God's sight this is an acceptable thing.)