There arose an argument among them about which of them was the greatest.
In love of the brothers be tenderly affectionate one to another; in honor preferring one another;
For I say, through the grace that was given me, to every man who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think reasonably, as God has apportioned to each person a measure of faith.
Do all things without murmurings and disputes,
doing nothing through rivalry or through conceit, but in humility, each counting others better than himself;
I wrote to the assembly, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, doesn't accept what we say.