Then an argument started among the disciples about which of them was the greatest.
Be completely dedicated to each other in your love as family; value others more than yourselves.
Let me explain to all of you, through the grace given to me, that no one should think of themselves better than they ought to. You should think about yourselves realistically, according to the degree of trust God has shared with you.
Do everything without complaining or arguing
Don't do anything from a spirit of selfishness or pride, but humbly think of others better than you do of yourself.
I did write about this to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves being in charge, refuses to accept our authority.