A wife belongs to her husband instead of to herself, and a husband belongs to his wife instead of to himself.
Then I said, “Now you are mine! You will have to remain faithful to me, though it will be a long time before we sleep together.”
I say that if your wife has not committed some terrible sexual sin, you must not divorce her to marry someone else. If you do, you are unfaithful.”
Husbands and wives should be fair with each other about having sex.
So don't refuse sex to each other, unless you agree not to have sex for a little while, in order to spend time in prayer. Then Satan won't be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.