However, I think I am obeying God's Spirit when I say she would be happier to stay single.
Now I will answer the questions that you asked in your letter. You asked, "Is it best for people not to marry?"
What I am saying is for your own good--it isn't to limit your freedom. I want to help you to live right and to love the Lord above all else.
In my opinion that is what should be done, though I don't know of anything the Lord said about this matter.
Here is my advice for people who have never been married and for widows. You should stay single, just as I am.
I have been making a fool of myself. But you forced me to do it, when you should have been speaking up for me. I may be nothing at all, but I am as good as those super apostles.
This should prove to you that I am speaking for Christ. When he corrects you, he won't be weak. He will be powerful!
A year ago you were the first ones to give, and you gave because you wanted to. So listen to my advice.
So if you don't obey these rules, you are not really disobeying us. You are disobeying God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.