He who spares the rod hates his son. But he who loves him urgently instructs him.
Teach your son; do not despair. But do not set your soul toward putting him to death.
Foolishness has been bound to the heart of a child, and a rod of discipline shall cause it to flee.
The rod and its correction distribute wisdom. But the child who is left to his own will brings shame to his mother.
Teach your son, and he will refresh you, and he will give delight to your soul.
For whomever the Lord loves, he corrects, and just as a father does with a son, he wins him over.
But he who sins against me will wound his own soul. All who hate me love death."
"If anyone comes to me, and does not hate his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, and yes, even his own life, he is not able to be my disciple.
so that you would recognize in your heart that, just as a man educates his son, so has the Lord your God educated you.